Urge to destroy rising....

[Nay]

Seeing how you are 14yr...testostorone could very well be the problem, aka...growing pains.  One second you can be on top of the world..next minute, wanting to kill it..

I know it might feel like something has taken over your body and thoughts, and in a way I guess it as..but it is all what a normal teen should feel during these years of the body doing some serious growing.

Punch a pillow, that is what I use to do...(even girls have their harmones to deal with!)

Hope I helped, and hope you have more better days than bad ones.

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[Makoto]

True but this has been happening for a very long time I can't remember a time when I havent had moments like that happen.

[Nay]

Well, that was the only thing that came to my mind...so I have no idea what it could be.[^]  

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[acidmax120]

quote:Originally posted by Makoto

Despite the fact that i quoted the simpsons im serious about this.
   Sometimes ill just be doing normal stuff with nothin out of the ordinary and suddenly my head will start to hurt(not alot) and ill just want to break stuff i have to stop whatever im doing and just focus on destruction(jus stoppin meself) it usually lasts for just a little while but I was wonderin has anyone else ever had somethin lke that happen.

When you were younger you unconsciously recieved an unconditioned stimulus. Your mind learned from it, then it turned into a conditioned stimulus with a conditioned response.

Your neuro programming is set to do it. []

[Aries]

Give into the Darkside luke. Take you bat, and break your TV!!!! that will make you feel muuuuuuch better. Then take your broken TV and throw it out the window! Oh yes, your feeling good now arent you? Now unplug your fridge and then throw waded up socks into your toilet and flush it!
Mwhahahahahahahahahahahah [}:)]

[|)]  Actually I dont really have a response as to why this is happening. Except that the Government or Aliens put a large metal ball into your brain and it is sending Electric shocks to you to make you the next Unibomber. Go get a Anti-Telepathy helmet, and 6 pounds of Vicks Vapor rub. Put on the helmet and "grease" your self up, now bust out the slip'n'slide and have some fun. Also I might suggest setting your house on fire, as no doubt they have bugged it and are watching you right now.....
Oh sorry... destructive side wanting to come out.

Seriously now, some times I have the urge to just break and destroy things also. Its usually when certain music is playing, or when certain things has happened during the day. Although I have no explanation.
-Aries

[Nagual]

Makoto, are you implying that you cannot resist that urge...?
Many people (everybody?) feels more or less like that sometimes.  Just ignore this urge.  "Simple"! [|)]

Now, why do we get that urge... hum... I guess if you brake stuff it gives you a feeling of power...  Must be an ego thing.  Or maybe too much "unchanneled" energy...?  Do you practice any sport?

Next time you get that urge, go out and run until it is over...  But still, the best is to ignore it.  Try not to be a slave to your emotions.

[kakkarot]

well it certainly can't be the age thing since i'm 22 and get urges like that sometimes too.

i wish i could help you in some way makoto, but i still can't even fully stop it in myself. good luck to you though.

~kakkarot

[Nay]

Yes, it can be the age....22 is still young, and at times have those great male hormones racing through your system.  But hey, don't take my word for it..Please continue trying to find some wild explanation as to why you are feeling something that is quite normal...[xx(]

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[Rob]

I feel a sudden jab of psychological pain which centers around my solar plexus relative regularly, its like I'm imploding. Certain memories trigger it, but it generally only last a few seconds tops. Its very unpleasant. With me I think it is related to insecurity and neg conditioning. Meditation, mindfulness, pure acceptance of self, and introspection will all help a lot...if you can, try and hold the angry state of mind you are in, feel the mental state, then try and transmute it into another feeling. To do this I might hold on to the feeling, but release the pent up energy (turns to feeling sad), calm it, purify it in my mind, perhaps temper it with another feeling like love, joy, whatever. Or just feel it, the anger, but let it stay, smooth itself out for a few seconds (concentrating on it still), then let its polarity switch (this feels to me like a kind of helping protecting emotion/energy, rather than anger/destroy). You'll need to be able to think and control your feelings without being controlled by them - in a way this is like disconnecting, while still being immersed in those feelings. Difficult to explain but I hope this helps!

Rob

[Hephaestus]

I always have the urge to destory things and if I ever meet anybody I always imagine breaking their necks or somthing or causing them severe pain for an eternity [] its all just natural.

[Makoto]

Thx for input.

Just thought it was kinda wierd i assume its just hormones or something.

[Aries]

Everyone gets them at some points... *slaps lamp off desk*
Its fairly normal... I mean even people who arent violent *pours water on tv* want to destroy things sometimes. From what I see its just in our nature as humans to destroy things. Think about it, we as Humans *pees in the sink...* are destroying everything on this planet from the forests to even things that we make, and even eatchother. To deny these urges is to deny your nature.. or something. *rubs magnet on monitor*
-Aries

[TheLunatic]

Ahhhh... i gotta go...


(Backs away from the forum very very sloooowly)

[Makoto]

Despite the fact that i quoted the simpsons im serious about this.
   Sometimes ill just be doing normal stuff with nothin out of the ordinary and suddenly my head will start to hurt(not alot) and ill just want to break stuff i have to stop whatever im doing and just focus on destruction(jus stoppin meself) it usually lasts for just a little while but I was wonderin has anyone else ever had somethin lke that happen.