quote:Hi,
Originally posted by Veccolo
Hello, I don't know if this is the right section for such questions, so feel free to move this thread.
Let's say I have a guide. I mean a real guide, not some fool who pretends to be one. How would I "get rid of" him/her?
That's a serious question.
Thanks
Stephan
Can it be assumed that you mean a spirit guide type of entity?
If so can I also assume that you mean something like preventing them from intruding on your daily life etc. This is something that from personal experience and via the way I have been taught is something that guides or helpers would always respect anyway. Although when someone starts to develop as a medium or channel one can often be wide open to spirit and other influences, and this can feel somewhat overwhelming at first.
To counter or control this there are plenty of good exercises you can use. The first is to send clear and respectful thoughts to your helper(s) stating your intention to only welcome their presence at set days and times for example. If they are your helpers then this would be absolutely honoured. Otherwise they would only contact you if there was a reasonably urgent need for them to do so, or to assist you in some particular lesson or challenge.
Secondly if you feel that you are getting contacts at unwelcome times and really want your own space then there are meditations which can help. Some of these are in Robert Bruce's book PPSD. Look up the white light technique, although some people think it does not work - I have never had a problem with this. Try perhaps the Tower of Light exercise on this site, standard banishing rituals or say the Great Invocation.
However here are a couple of simplified ones.
Send the initial thought asking to be left alone as above – then make a clear intention that you are in a protective space and erect in your minds eye panels of glass all around you say shaped like a cube. Placing each plate in turn until you are completely enclosed! This is also useful when in the company of people if you feel their energy disturbing or draining as an example.
Try perhaps a sphere meditation. In this case apply the same intent and visualize a sphere forming. Approach the sphere and create a doorway into it. Pass through the door and seal or lock it behind you. You can then make this sacred space in any way you choose. Some people place cushions or carpet and set the light to a suitable ambience as wished. When you feel you are comfortable you can exit the sphere and get on with whatever you would normally do.
Similarly if you wanted to develop better communication with a helper then you could invite them into this space and ask that they show you something or offer a gift to you as a token of trust etc. Again after that you would ask them politely to pull away and allow you to have your own space again before completing the meditation or attunement.
Guides or helpers will always come giving sensations of love and comforting feelings – if however you just seem get pure dry communication, however exalted e.g. lots of fancy philosophy and no good emotions then ensure that you send clear thoughts that the spirit should move away and finish your sitting with a prayer of protection. This is something that really should be taken as read.
Hope this makes sense to you.
All the best,
Stephen