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Yes, I've lied to people and to myself. The difference is that I've not done it to hurt anyone. I was lied to so he could hurt me. When you believe what you're told it hurts to find out the truth. Think it's all my fault. I'm gullible, I allowed myself to be lied to. But like you said, it's a fault with him, not me.

Thanks very much for the replies. Helps me understand

I've been lied to recently by somebody I trusted and believed in. Why do people do this? Could it be that they have had the same done to them? I wonder what they gain from doing this. Do people on here believe in 'what goes around comes around'?

Do you think that our 'souls' or the equivalent always love the same 'souls' in whatever existence they are in? Whether it is a sexual love or other type of love. I mean my love for the special man in my life is not the same love as I feel for my brother, mum etc. Do we always 'love' the same soul but in a different way?

Hi Lionheart. Yes love does hurt. But it shouldn't. Good tune though

I've read many times that the reason you cannot sleep sometimes is that somebody else is dreaming about you. You're in somebody else's dream. Is this true? Can it be?

Is it possible to miss somebody so much it feels like an actual physical pain? Not just in your head or your imagination but deep in your heart/body

Cheers Stillwater

I've not been on the site for a long while. Do I need to be approved/verified?

Szaxx

Yes I have felt all the above in the physical. Its such a wonderful feeling when you are so close to another person. And yes, if I lost that person I would be torn apart. I have been through so much, as have you. And its not always the person you are with, its like, the person you are meant to be with. And I do know who Im meant to be with and he knows it too. Thank you

Szaxx

D'you know what, just love what you posted. Wow, great sentiment. Have felt all this myself. Nice one

There are some 'events' in my life I so wish I could go back to. See how they look now from what I now know. How my life has developed because of things that have happened to me. I do not want to change what I experienced but to see if I think about them in a different way. I really do think that things/events happen for a reason, good or bad. They help you grow and develop spiritually as well as emotionally. No regrets as everything happens for a reason.

Just read this post and all I can say is that although Ive tried in the past I do not have as much time as you all seem to have. I get up at 6.30am every weekday, work till 5pm go home tired as a tired thing. Go to the gym, usually every other day. Then get home about 7pm have something to eat and go to bed at 10pm. Id like to spend sometime with my husband and my friends inbetween all this. Don't know where you all get the time from. Do you all work part time?

Happy New Year to all of you! Hope 2013 is a good one. Be kind to each other. Love and understanding.

From me here in Timperley, Cheshire.England

OK - tell you my thoughts

2012 has been brilliant. One of the best years for years.

2013? - who knows. Ive got a feeling that there may be big changes ahead for me. I just hope that it all works out right

A nice light chat topic

How was 2012 for you all?Everything you wanted it to be?

And what do you hope for in 2013?Any plans?

Have a good one whatever you're all up to. Be safe

Dreamshards - congrats with your decision, cannot been an easy one. You do sound happy. Best wishes for next year and for always. Enjoy life to the full x

Just thought Id share my thoughts which I had this morning. So, this year has been pretty eventful. I found out one of my best friends (well I thought he was) was not all he pretended to be. Hes a fake and I fell for it. Mind you he is probably like that with everybody, hes very convincing. Why are people like that? Hes not in my life any more (his choice) so I cant be taken in any more. Ive also found the person Ive always loved feels the same way. Hes very special to me and makes me so happy, as I am to him. Also, realised that money is not the be all and end all. Health, happiness, family and friends are my number one and its taken some pretty bad things to happen for me to realise and take stock. Next year??? Who knows what is in store for me. I know what I want but will I get it? Its not materialistic. Sometimes I would like to know the future and then I think 'no' - suprise me. This time next year??? Talk about wishing my life away.

That's all. Be happy out there

Hiya all

Thanks for your responses. Still don't know what to do. Its complicated. I know she has been lied to and she is living in some sort of fantasy world.

Its always good to get opinions for others. Makes you examine things.

Is honesty always the best policy? If you know for sure that somebody is living a lie do you tell them? Should they have the right to know the truth or do you carry on letting them believe in falsehood?

Depression is not being 'unhappy'. Anti depressants do not cure you.  Yes, something is wrong if you are diagnosed with depression and that does have to be looked at and cured. Its the worst feeling in the world. I suffered for 7 months and would not wish it on my worst enemy. I lost 7 months of my life but as a result I did find a friend (now ex friend) who did help me via exercise. Find the root cause

Surely it depends on what you determine is great? Many things make people 'great' people. Sometimes the best educated people are the lesser people in regards to how they treat others. Some of the 'great' people can be uneducated but are 'nice' humans

ForrestDean

Liking that idea - and who knows eh?

Hiya

Can you just 'know' something is going happen? or is it just coincidence? eg my friend texts me early in the mornings when hes on shift at either 5am or 6am. Its not a set time but yesterday he was on at 5 and I woke up just before I got his text, as if I 'knew' his text was on its way. I've done this many times. Can you have a '6th' sense?

Hiya

OK I've been thinking about why you've not had any success since May. I'm sure Ive read somewhere, in a book or on here, that one reason could be something to do with your physical life. What I mean is that there may have been issues in your life which needed sorting out and this could have been causing some kind of 'blockage' in your attempts to have an OOBE. Now Im sure Im not making it up but you never know with me. But now at least you've had another OOBE and fingers crossed you'll have many more.

Happy travelling my friend

Thanks for the response desert-rat

Not possible for me to go with him or to contact him. Just got to worry and wait. So wish I could be more laid back about it all.

Wonder if its possible to change how we feel?