why so much empasize on the negativity of sexual energy?

[monk-5]

Okay I have a question. From time to time again I keep hearing from mediums that sexual energy is bad,, waste of time, waste of energy etc. however from my experience it was totally the opposite.
As you know I have entity problems. In the beginning the entity use to have spiritual sex with me however when i am being aroused my third eye opens and i fall into a trance easily. My stigmata appears and I grow stronger, remembering past lives etc.. little glimpses of intuition etc. and I am transformed into a whole new person, someone I have always knew, someone who I use to be in past lives, a whole compleate spiritual passionate person.

Anyways my friend says .. and i also read that when a man ejaculates he release energy and this is bad, also focusing energy on the lower chakras is bad as you should always direct energy to your higher chakras

however i have a whole different perspective in general.

first matter of business is how could sexual energy be bad if you get a mental high from it, and you start feeling intense emotions of happiness and etc.. your heart opens up and orgasm is like meditation in which your mind is blank , allowing yourself to enter a trance set of mind ...

all of this opens your third eye

also sexual energy burns karma or release repress energy, i can also sense this

the entity is so desperate that he stopped having sex with me altogether and instead represses its own sexual energy in order to block my own as we are connected and his own actions affect my being draining me

he also numbed my sensory perception to my groin so i could not feel anything or not enter that state of mind

so i wonder... whats so bad about it?

[Doringo]

Maybe it's the general prudishness of modern society which makes people think the lower chakras are bad?

The higher chakras are still a good thing to develop, though.

[cainam_nazier]

As far as what this entity is doing to you I don't know.   But here is my take on energy in general.

I personally do not believe that there is such a thing as "bad" energy.  Or I should say that energy, no matter the type, is nuetral.  However I think a persons or entitys energy can be bad, but only because of that persons or entitys effect on the energy and ultimately how it effects you.  Energy is but a tool, it is what you do with that tool that makes the differance.

Ultimately this applies to "good" or "bad" energy as I view good and evil as matters of perspective.  So any energy from a source that is in line with your beliefs and your own personal energy will feel good, or rather would effect you in a way that is congruant to your beliefs.  Any energy from a source that is at odds with your beliefs or energy will effect you adversly.

Specifically with sexual energy, there are many belief systems that encourage the use of sexual energy for meditation or alternatly use meditation to increase ones sexual energy.

It is all just a matter of perspective.

[Skippy]

first matter of business is how could sexual energy be bad if you get a mental high from it, and you start feeling intense emotions of happiness and etc.. your heart opens up and orgasm is like meditation in which your mind is blank , allowing yourself to enter a trance set of mind ..s totally the opposite.

There are a number of people who feel that sex, or sexual energy is bad, or "dirty." It's an idea that seems to have been around for ages. Even I get embarrassed discussing sex - if it ever comes up in conversation, I tend to refer to it as "you-know-what" or "it". I know that it's nothing to be ashamed of, but it's the general embarrassment I have of talking about the body.

But anything that makes you feel good must be a good thing, as far as I'm concerned.

[Kodemaster]

monk-5: Do you live in the US? If so, the answer to your question is because in conservative America we have been conditioned to believe that sex is "dirty" or "shameful." If you travel to other countries, (especially Europe) you will find that people are a lot more open about those things.

This is not to say that there aren't sexually liberated Americans. If the mediums you visit are giving you a hard time, try visiting different ones. It doesn't seem to me that their belief system is compatible with yours.

Regarding your entity: Sorry I don't have much to say about that, as I have zero experience with such a thing.

[monk-5]

i think the mediums meant it at an intuitive level not emotional level

[CFTraveler]

Okay I have a question. From time to time again I keep hearing from mediums that sexual energy is bad,, waste of time, waste of energy etc. however from my experience it was totally the opposite.

Well, everyone here did a good job of explaining the religious attitude in the US and other sexually suppressed cultures, so I won't repeat it.  Some mystics in the east also consider sexual energy, not bad, but wasted, or dissipated, but I do think that it's for the wrong reasons- the idea that energy is 'finite', that you can 'run out'.  So they want to 'save it' for other 'higher' pursuits.  Certain Hindu traditions believed in giving up anything earthly (even eating) so sex was included, or even especially spurned, because it leads to continuation (having babies.)  and they were looking for dissolution. (Please notice I said 'certain', not 'all').

As you know I have entity problems. In the beginning the entity use to have spiritual sex with me however when i am being aroused my third eye opens and i fall into a trance easily. My stigmata appears and I grow stronger, remembering past lives etc.. little glimpses of intuition etc. and I am transformed into a whole new person, someone I have always knew, someone who I use to be in past lives, a whole compleate spiritual passionate person.

Would you characterize it as more body awareness?

Anyways my friend says .. and i also read that when a man ejaculates he release energy and this is bad, also focusing energy on the lower chakras is bad as you should always direct energy to your higher chakras

I think this comes from the belief I stated above, a belief I do not share.

first matter of business is how could sexual energy be bad if you get a mental high from it, and you start feeling intense emotions of happiness and etc.. your heart opens up and orgasm is like meditation in which your mind is blank , allowing yourself to enter a trance set of mind ...

Most people don't enter into trance from arousal, but in my case arousal causes me to have more energy to project.  So far so good.

all of this opens your third eye

I'll get to that later too.

also sexual energy burns karma or release repress energy, i can also sense this

I agree on #2, I don't see how releasing sexual energy has to do with 'burning karma.'  Do you mean releasing negative energy?  Because if you believe in the theory of karma (cause->effect ) releasing energy doesn't change the cause, it just redirects your attention away from it.  It's more avoidance than resolution.

the entity is so desperate that he stopped having sex with me altogether and instead represses its own sexual energy in order to block my own as we are connected and his own actions affect my being draining me

he also numbed my sensory perception to my groin so i could not feel anything or not enter that state of mind

so i wonder... whats so bad about it?

Well, I can only answer from my experiences, so I will go with that:  When I don't have sex and am aroused, I will almost assuredly project.  This is 'good' in a way if I want to do it, but it is 'bad' because I attract all manner of sexual predators in the lower astral, and end up either raped and 'astrally battered', or I spend the whole time avoiding assault, which takes the fun out of projecting.  It's been very few times that a sexually-powered  projection has ended well, much less come out with any enlightening spiritual encounter or learning experience.  So in this case for me having sex before projecting on purpose is almost a necessity- because frankly, I don't project to have sex, that's what my body is for. 
So that's it:  The astral is malleable, and a person is affected by  subconscious direction.  If a person has a negative relationship to sex, then they will avoid and suppress it, and it will come out in their OBEs.  Which then will make them more sure of the (false) negativity of sexuality, which becomes a vicious circle.
Also, the idea of only working your higher chakras is a very unbalanced one.  The person who only works on their higher chakras and not grounding risks insanity.  Or at the very least bad headaches.  Grounding supports how to be in this world, higher energy work, how to receive info from 'other' channels.  If you lose touch with your earthly, survival instict, you lose perspective. 

[Goober]

Sexual energy burns carbs, not karma.