Are we the light?

[Positive3]

Hello Ladies and Gentleman,
In posts i see this line very often " You are the light "; " You are the beacon " ; " Cosmic Love Energy ".
Last time i got a very good advice from you that i should first love my self to show love towards others i worked on this for a while there were many possitive changes as always thanks : )

So basiclly what my question is : How can you show love towards others? how can you be light for them ? How can you raise others Vibration? i mean not just smile and moke jokes but really lift them up

[Xanth]

The two statements I love are: "Words are cheap" & "Actions speak louder than words".

As for HOW you "act" in order to do that... you just make sure your actions are based upon Love-based decisions.

http://www.unlimitedboundaries.ca/2014/02/23/best-method-astral-projection-paths-spiritual-growth-2/  <-- love based growth

[Positive3]

Thanks for the link as always usefull : )
By the way i won't open a new topic what you think about honesty? i mean being honest there are moments when i lied to someone but for their own good there are people who aren't for truth what you think about this being always 100% honest is good?

[ThaomasOfGrey]

Thanks for the link as always usefull : )
By the way i won't open a new topic what you think about honesty? i mean being honest there are moments when i lied to someone but for their own good there are people who aren't for truth what you think about this being always 100% honest is good?

I find that we possess a type of inner compass on this. I don't know if it is a binary state, more likely an analog scale; some people refer to it as acting from your higher or lower self. If you take close notice of yourself you may find that anger, lies, all of those bad things are associated with a type of negative feeling that sweeps over.

I feel it in my stomach and it takes almost nothing to trigger it; it is an ego response usually. When you act with this feeling one could say you are acting from your lower self - if you feel yourself move into this state refrain from acting. It isn't a literal answer but I think it works, if you never speak from anything but your higher self you cannot go wrong!?

[Xanth]

Thanks for the link as always usefull : )
By the way i won't open a new topic what you think about honesty? i mean being honest there are moments when i lied to someone but for their own good there are people who aren't for truth what you think about this being always 100% honest is good?

Intent.  Everything comes back to Intent, which is the WHY you did something. 

Did you lie to someone because you felt they couldn't handle the truth? 
Did you lie because you wanted to protect them from the truth? 
Did you lie to them because you're just a stupid, mean liar-pants? 

The INTENT behind why you do the things you do determines the spiritual growth of the action. 
The wallet-scenario in my post above explains it in further detail.  One action with two completely different Intents cause two completely different reactions in your own spiritual development.

[Positive3]

Oh it's clear now but i have one more thing to ask : P

Evil Side u described i have a type of friend like that but thing is he is not just friend to me i mean i know him for 7+ years the thing is he changed in last year it's like i thik i have other kind of person i would be happy if changes were different the thing is he just slowly rips him self, i know don't push your beleifes to others and so on but when my friend is on this path ofcourse i want to help him but he doesn't want to listen me let's say so he doesn't want to be changed.

I just want to clear some facts i am not manipulative person and let a person be whoever he wants , but i see that the life and view he holds is going against him and he doesn't even realize it

What would be your advice what should i do?

Do you agree that sometimes we have to be on dark side to help someone? i mean mental manipulation now when all good things i tried don't work the thing is i hope you get what i say his life is like : Seeing a man going to jump off the bridge and don't stop him because u say it's his choise

[Xanth]

Oh it's clear now but i have one more thing to ask : P

Evil Side u described i have a type of friend like that but thing is he is not just friend to me i mean i know him for 7+ years the thing is he changed in last year it's like i thik i have other kind of person i would be happy if changes were different the thing is he just slowly rips him self, i know don't push your beleifes to others and so on but when my friend is on this path ofcourse i want to help him but he doesn't want to listen me let's say so he doesn't want to be changed.

I just want to clear some facts i am not manipulative person and let a person be whoever he wants , but i see that the life and view he holds is going against him and he doesn't even realize it

What would be your advice what should i do?

Do you agree that sometimes we have to be on dark side to help someone? i mean mental manipulation now when all good things i tried don't work the thing is i hope you get what i say his life is like :

Here are my thoughts on this...
You are only responsible for your own spiritual growth.  You can "guide" people, but you can't force them to change.  And realize what you're REALLY trying to do here... you're judging your friend and the actions they take.  Who are YOU to judge the choices of another person?

People are where they are for a reason and we're all doing the best we can with what we have available to us.
Sometimes the biggest lesson we need to learn is people have their own lessons to learn in order to make spiritual progress... and we can't force that.

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink".

Seeing a man going to jump off the bridge and don't stop him because u say it's his choise

Now, you bring up an interesting dilemma with this particular scenario. 
Usually, the person making the suicidal choice is doing so for fear-based reasons (there can be SOME exceptions to this)... as such, I think it's well within the realm of reason to help guide these people back to a more spiritually productive way of thinking about themselves and the reality they find themselves in.

Remember, everything is based around Intent.