dream question

[SnakeDoctor]

so, when you constantly dream about someone, whats that mean?

[Mez]

depends on the context and who you're dreaming about. Its really up to you to figure the rest out i guess.
But it could well mean your subcioncios is saturated with thoughts of them

[SnakeDoctor]

oh, its not me. its my friend, she keeps having dreams about some one(she wont say who), and its making her depressed.

[Mydral]

She is emotionally attached to him/her. Maybe she is in love or she misses someone.

[SnakeDoctor]

oh ok, thanks.

[kailaurius]

Hello SnakeDoctor,

That is very interesting because I have also been dreaming about a person constantly for about 12 years now.  I usually have the dreams, that I can remember, from anywhere around once or twice a month to 2 or 3 times a week.  They are mostly only casual dreams that she just happens to be in.  Most of the dreams are from the time we were in school.  Probably because we went to school together from 2nd grade through to graduation.

I agree with Mydral in that there could be some emotional attachment causing the reoccurring dreams.  We did have feelings for each other through school, but seemingly not at the same time.  Apparently she had a crush on me at some point through the years that I did not find out until later, and then I had developed a crush on her as well, but not until later, so we never actually synced together so to speak.  At the time I had developed a crush on her I was too scared to pursue a relationship because I had feared that it could ruin our friendship since we were really good friends.  There have been several times that I have woken up from the dream with a feeling of regret.  Probably because I might have felt we could have been together, and I missed out on the opportunity.  The feeling will usually last a day or two then finally fades away.

I have tried exploring the reasons as to why I keep dreaming about her, but I have yet to figure it out.  It's possible it could be due to the reason I stated above, but I don't have these feelings outside the dreams... at least not consciously, and I never think about her at all during the day.  There will be times where I don't dream or think about her for several months then all of a sudden she pops back in again.  What is weird is that I didn't start dreaming about her until 7 years after we graduated from high school.  There have been several vivid dreams where we would carry on long conversations with each other.  Some of the conversations have been about how our lives have been going so far.  So maybe we are connected in some way inner dimensionally, and even though we were never meant to be together we still communicate with each other on an inner dimensional level.  But that's just a guess.  However, if we are having some sort of inner dimensional communication going on, I can't help but wonder if I keep showing up in her dreams as well.

Anyway, as far as I know she is still happily married, and I have been quite happily married for over 15 years now.  Even though I have these dreams quite frequently, they don't really bother me.  It's more of a curiosity as to why I have the dreams.  I haven't done any research into the details of the dreams, mainly because I'm to busy with other things at the moment.

I don't know if giving my experience on this was any help or not, and I'm not sure what advice I could give that could possibly give your friend some relief from the depression she's having due to these dreams.  I do believe there is a meaning to every dream, but since most dreams are metaphoric and symbolic in nature it can be hard to figure out the meaning.  I would highly suggest that she keep a dream journal, and record any and all of her dreams that she can recall.  There is an excellent on-line dream journal where she can record her dreams in case she is interested located here: http://www.dreamjournal.org/dj/

[SnakeDoctor]

thanks, ill pass it on to her.

[melody]

I have tried exploring the reasons as to why I keep dreaming about her, but I have yet to figure it out. 

Hello Kailaurius,

Maybe you were together in an intimate relationship in a past life or even in several lives. But in this life you have probably decided to get some other experiences for personal and spiritual growth. Maybe this is why she is in your dreams to remind you of the multidimensional reality of our lives, and of some aspect of timelessness, of a continuum.