I dreamed I was a Headmistress...

[Xanth]

Xanth: Is this perchance mentioned in Frank's huge site on phasing?

Hi LadyS,
Nope, they're not... they're basically just posts that Frank has done.
Try these two:

http://www.astralpulse.com/forums/welcome_to_out_of_body_experiences/how_to_turn_lucid_to_obe-t2608.0.html;msg16997#msg16997

http://www.astralpulse.com/forums/welcome_to_astral_projection_experiences/how_do_i_get_on_the_planes_through_a_lucid_dream-t1957.0.html;msg12848#msg12848

~Ryan

[LadySegesta]

Naykid: So far my day's good. Have you met this 'peripheral person' yet? Or has he still only been coming out when you 'need' him? I used to have dreams of this one guy (tall, thin, handsome with brown hair and eyes) who always acted quite affectionately towards me. Unfortunately I only had a handful of dreams of this guy, and I only was slightly conscious. I could never get conscious enough to really control myself and really 'talk' to him. A pity too. I would have liked to find out who he was.
Xanth: Actually, dictionary definitions were merely made for the purpose of giving meanings to things that previously had no 'meaning'. Period.  *Bookmarks links* Thanks for those!

[personalreality]

Fundamentally I have issues with dictionaries.

However, it provides a common language so we can communicate.  Otherwise we get this situation where two people have different definitions of the same word.

[Naykid]

Naykid: So far my day's good. Have you met this 'peripheral person' yet? Or has he still only been coming out when you 'need' him? I used to have dreams of this one guy (tall, thin, handsome with brown hair and eyes) who always acted quite affectionately towards me. Unfortunately I only had a handful of dreams of this guy, and I only was slightly conscious. I could never get conscious enough to really control myself and really 'talk' to him. A pity too. I would have liked to find out who he was.

"peripheral Person" I like that!  No, I've never come face to face, that I know of.  He did hand me a jacket once, but I didn't look at him. It's weird, because now that I think about it.. it just wasn't/isn't important to me to see him.  I feel him more than anything else, I suppose that's good enough for me. 

The one guy I did have a long conversation with, while walking side by side on a dirt road, was in a monk robe, thus not allowing me to see his face either.  Hmmmm.. I did however have a short conversation with a little girl, I can still see what she looked like.  She told me she was waiting to be born.   If those men were guides, perhaps I'm not suppose to see them...

[LadySegesta]

Personalreality: Well, I don't (have issues with dictionaries). As long as we all know what we're talking about, we're fine.

Naykid: That's funny. I would believe most guides would want you to see them. Then again, I wouldn't quite know that. I still have yet to really 'meet' mine, after all. Guides are funny though. And she told you that? It would be funny if you ended up seeing a little girl like her in waking life. 

[personalreality]

i feel like dictionaries make the world "smaller" in human perception.

i mean there's not really anything i can do about it besides unlearn speech.  but the idea still bugs me.

[Naykid]

Naykid: That's funny. I would believe most guides would want you to see them. Then again, I wouldn't quite know that. I still have yet to really 'meet' mine, after all. Guides are funny though. And she told you that? It would be funny if you ended up seeing a little girl like her in waking life. 

Yes, that is exactly what she said. 

I was trying to meet my guide and ended up at this house that I'd never seen before.  She was standing in the other room and when I saw her, I asked her if she was my guide and that's what she said.  The crazy thing is, I described everything to my best friend, which included a detailed description of the house and it's belongings.  She then told her fiance.  He freaked out because I had just described his house down to the boxes in garage.  My friend hadn't moved nor seen the house yet...which is in Ireland.   I thought it was going to be their child, but they are getting a divorce, sooo... lol

[LadySegesta]

Personalreality: Keeping yourself from talking is like keeping yourself from breathing. Not really something you can do. Well... at least, not easily, anyway.

Naykid: Maybe it was some weird sort of precognitive dream? And who knows? Maybe your friend is still gonna have that little girl. Surely it's not *too* weird for someone to have a baby after a divorce, right? I mean, yea it's not really 'right'... but... yea.  *Shuts up* I remember once I had a dream where I was walking through one of my high school's hallways and saw this random kid (who I absolutely did *not* know) wearing a denim jacket. I see him the next day as I walk through said hallway... wearing that jacket. Lol. XD

[Naykid]

Yeah, she still could have children and was talking of that very thing the other day.     It wasn't a dream though, it was a conscious projection.  I just didn't get the end result I was expecting.  Still a great validation non the less, for me anyhow.

[LadySegesta]

I'd say that was a great validation too. I can't say much else though. I've no idea what a conscious projection is... is that just a fancier way of saying it was some sort of AP? 

[Naykid]

I'd say that was a great validation too. I can't say much else though. I've no idea what a conscious projection is... is that just a fancier way of saying it was some sort of AP? 

     Yes.  Basically means I attempted to have an OBE, and I was aware the whole time.  I just didn't think I was going to end up at some random house.    Because while I was shooting through the ceiling, I was saying in my head, "meet my guide", over and over.  I have learned to not have expectations.

[LadySegesta]

Don't you just request they come to you? That's how I thought it worked... then again, what doing I know about that? After 3 years of trying I've still yet to get anywhere past minor vibrations and into AP. <_<

[Naykid]

Don't you just request they come to you? That's how I thought it worked... then again, what doing I know about that? After 3 years of trying I've still yet to get anywhere past minor vibrations and into AP. <_<

It never occurred to me to do that.....it seems pretty rude to me. 

I hope you have better luck in the future!

[LadySegesta]

It seems that way to me too. But I heard it works. And... if you feel really guilty about being rude, I suppose you can always throw in a whiny little "Pleeasssee" in there somewhere, ahaha. 

And thanks. I really hope so too.

[Yin]

random question.. how are guides decided to be guides? What do guides do when they're not guiding? Why would a guide be interested in guiding me? Are they just people that want to help or are some designated? It's a very interesting subject to me due to the implications of the notions they create. That was rather off topic though, and I don't want to just explode with questions. Anyways, I think its all in the manner of how you try to approach them and the energy you emit in doing so. If its warm, fuzzy, and loving, I'm sure they will return it to you in kind   I'm just a rather independent person, and guides are something I think I would compare to as other people who wished to share the same as I do, guides.. as expressed most commonly seem too servantly to me, and I don't want to bring them down to such a level. I would rather call them helpers, the humanitarians of the nonphysical.

[Naykid]

how are guides decided to be guides?

I have no idea, but I've often said, that I don't want to incarnate again, I want to be a guide.

What do guides do when they're not guiding?

Once again, I have no idea, not a guide yet.  BUT.. I would love to think, doing whatever they want.  Checking in on friends or family, hanging with the local guides. That kind of stuff.

Why would a guide be interested in guiding me?

Again, have no idea.  I don't think you feel you need anyone to guide you, so I think you're safe.

Are they just people that want to help or are some designated?

I've wondered that too!  I think most of them are souls that have had a physical life..of course, I have no way knowing that for sure.

I'm just a rather independent person, and guides are something I think I would compare to as other people who wished to share the same as I do, guides.. as expressed most commonly seem too servantly to me, and I don't want to bring them down to such a level. I would rather call them helpers, the humanitarians of the nonphysical.

So, it's semantics?  If I call them helpers would that ease your mind?  

[LadySegesta]

Yin: Guides are also called helpers. Any word that is used to describe 'someone' who helps can also be used to describe the guides. I get your point though, about trying to not lower them to the point that they seem servantly. They're still beings like us... except without... physical prisons.

Naykid: I dunno about you... but I *certainly* do *not* want to ever be in the physical again. The surroundings around us (i.e. nature and landscapes) many at many times be beautiful. But life can get a bit tiring. Especially if you could tell how many times you've been reincarnated into a human. XD I think if I had a choice in the matters of my future incarnation/life, I would love to be an astral teacher or helper. Pretty much any astral being that helps humans raise their spiritual levels/vibrations.

[Yin]

I've wondered that too!  I think most of them are souls that have had a physical life..of course, I have no way knowing that for sure.So, it's semantics?  If I call them helpers would that ease your mind?  

more so that after reading you two lovelies talking about guides I got to realizing the definition I had of guides over various readings was completely inaccurate so I sought to remake it with what I thought of them. It seems I'll just have to ask a guide those questions if I really want those answers, lol, which is logical. Call them what you wish.

[Naykid]

more so that after reading you two lovelies talking about guides I got to realizing the definition I had of guides over various readings was completely inaccurate so I sought to remake it with what I thought of them. It seems I'll just have to ask a guide those questions if I really want those answers, lol, which is logical. Call them what you wish.

Thank you, Yin.

[LadySegesta]

Yin: Definitions are irrelevant in some cases (like our talk about guides). If it's easier to call them by how you see them such as you and I do on guides, then go ahead with that. Good luck with getting answers with (your) guide.

Naykid:

[Naykid]

Naykid:

  OK.

[Yin]

Yin: Definitions are irrelevant in some cases (like our talk about guides). If it's easier to call them by how you see them such as you and I do on guides, then go ahead with that. Good luck with getting answers with (your) guide.

mM, I don't think I have a guide though, at least one that is "dedicated" to me .. I can tell I'm going to be super stubborn about it until I break down, but maybe that's the way its supposed to be.. whoever my guide is needs to prep for an explosion of curiosity.

Naykid:

*doesn't get it*

[LadySegesta]

Naykid: Yay. Somebody got it.

Yin: That strikethrough meant that I acknowledged ... him/her ... but had nothing to say. Lol.

[Yin]

Naykid: Yay. Somebody got it.

Yin: That strikethrough meant that I acknowledged ... him/her ... but had nothing to say. Lol.

ah, I wasn't sure what cryptic secret messages were being hidden from me.. 

[Naykid]

Nothing secret here.  I still have no idea what she meant by that.  I thought it either meant, I'd been stricken from the rest of the conversation, I need to cease what I was doing, or I was no longer a part of her reality. 

My natural reaction was to laugh and agree.  I do have two teenagers and that comes in handy when they start acting like teens. 

It's alllllllllll good Yin.